Being seen vs being looked at https://youtu.be/u8kSiylePVI?t=2395 I recently saw this video where they discussed about the distinction between being seen and being looked at. Never thought much about it before, but yes being seen and being looked at are so different. Being looked at gives the I-It vibe, while being seen puts the person…
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Thought of some activities that facilitate Flow state, bring you to the present moment, engage your whole self (mind, body, soul) playing music playing sports playing video games programming woodworking writing cooking painting dancing conversing (not just talking or just listening) Of course you still need other components of flow to enter the flow state…
Hi friends, welcome back. In the first part, we looked at the extent of painful and pleasurable sensations. We also split pain into two camps: danger and discomfort. Now, how do you know if you are in danger or are you “merely” uncomfortable? I’m in pain. Should I run or should I lean into it?…
I want to talk about pain, pleasure, danger, discomfort, and suffering. It started when I realised how temporary some painful physical sensations are and how addicted I am to pleasurable experiences. Because this simple observation started growing heads and legs, we’ll split this into a series of more digestible posts: Sensory signals {pain|pleasure} are fleeting.…
A friend was telling me about how he is “bored” with life. He goes to work, maintains his open source project as a hobby, helps out with some local tech comunities, and passively scrolls on social media. He dreams of spending time at cafes, watching movies, relaxing, doing whatever he had in mind, having no…
I just saw someone on my Facebook timeline proudly shared about how he “made a ruckus” on some online scientific forum because he challenged the argument made by a paper titled “Language is primarily a tool for communication rather than thought” (the article on NYTimes | the paper H/T gwern) (translated) Last Sunday night, I…
In the previous post in this series, I explored the question is there no reason to believe in god? As I followed the thought, the second thing I realised more and more: the religious impulse runs deep and spirituality is innate. Ultimately humans have a deeply-seated urge to feel connected to something larger than ourselves.…
Hi friends, how are you? I was just thinking of a couple of funny stories of when my mother cutely used the wrong words that resulted in unexpected funnies, a phenomenon known as “malapropism”. But actually I want to use the stories as a jump off point to pick up where we last left off…
I saw this video recently https://www.instagram.com/reel/C48KLH0u-Zl/ When the lady said “_I did not see reason to believe that there was a god__”, I realised I have actually changed my stance on this issue. I used to say I believe in god but I don’t believe in religion. But now I think believe in god and…
There’s this clip going around of Jensen Huang being interviewed by Patrick Collison in a Stripe corporate event talking about how he doesn’t do 1:1s. The reason, as discussed within the scope of that segment in the interview, was essentially because he thinks 1) feedbacks (as far as I understood it, on their ideas and…