Is this it?

What do you want? Do you know how to get there? Do you know what being wealthy means to you? What makes you feel alive? Freedom to and freedom from. Freedom to own your time. Freedom from expectations. Some degree of control and power over your circumstances. Spend an evening with your friends, not worrying…

Gathering Komunitas Mitrabisnis – Pisang Goreng Madu Bu Nanik

Gathering Komunitas Mitrabisnis — Pisang Goreng Madu Bu Nanik Mau sharing pengalaman kemarin ikutan kopdar komunitas Mitra Bisnis di Pluit Junction. Sudah beberapa bulan saya mengetahui dan mengikuti komunitas ini di Instagram. Komunitas ini diprakarsai oleh Pak Anthonius Thedy (TX Travel) dan Candri, founder app Gratiser. Mungkin kalau sering dengar Pas FM, nah Pak Anton ini rutin siaran…

Confidence

I am part of a community called Introvert Network Asia (Indonesia chapter) and recently was asked to do a talk in one of the get-together. I think this is quite a heck lot of information to deliver and absorb without any text to go back to, so I decided to publish the outline here. When the…

“x year sucked, next year will be better”

[caption id="attachment_165" align="alignnone" width="758"] “ready for next year”[/caption] Saw this tweet the other day. Somehow it stuck with me and I started thinking about it randomly in the shower. Thought it’d be interesting to list some of the things that popped into my mind: Selection bias. Obviously this Twitter account configured the search to look…

Clear communication

Three tendencies that hurt brief and clear communication: overexplaining underpreparing lack of clarity of the point you’re trying to get across Sources Joe McCormack (Author of Brief: Make a Bigger Impact by Saying Less) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_xOJ0fv-tQg

[book] The Proverb Effect – Notes

This is my personal book note / summary on Ron Ploof’s book: The Proverb Effect [1]. I first heard about the book after Tamsen Webster posted about it in her Instagram account[2]. It immediately caught my attention because I am semi-obsessed with the idea of articulation and improving my ability to communicate ideas in a succinct…

Stuffs and moments

life is about stuffs and moments collecting them. holding onto them. letting go of them. remembering, forgetting. hmmm manipulating stuff and moments by whom? ego. self. depending on who/what is perceiving the life. the desire to own, conquer, appreciate things that conjure the moments things that afford us the stuff stuff. moments. those are the…

663 days of journaling

I have been writing 750+ words per day for the past 663 days. Here are some things I learned: I think in text. I need to trap my thoughts in text. I cannot process my thoughts without seeing them as words. Initially I wrote and edit at the same time. I censored, restructured, rephrased and…

My experiment with time tracking

I’ll share one (probably) weird thing with you today. I have been keeping track of my time, down to the minutes since July. I use this app and have these categories set up for different activities: Exercise Meal Sleeping Consuming – NIANU Consuming – Book SH work Non SH work Grooming Journaling Family Social Music Break…

Do your thing. No one cares.

Nothing matters, really. All those deadlines. All those plans. Goals, wishes, worries, what ifs. Most of them don’t matter in the grand scheme of things. They keep on changing. Remember what you were obsessed about last year? Remember what was so important to you this time last month? All imaginary and fleeting. You are not…